Tips for Your First Session
Your first therapy session is an important step toward growth, healing, and self-
understanding. To help you feel prepared and get the most out of your time, here
are some tips and guidance:
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1. Be Open and Honest
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Your therapist can best support you when you share openly about your thoughts,
feelings, challenges, and goals. There’s no need to “perform” or have everything
figured out — just bring your authentic self.
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2. Think About Your Goals
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Consider what you hope to achieve in therapy. These goals might include:
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Managing anxiety, depression, or stress
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Improving relationships or communication
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Processing trauma or grief
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Strengthening coping skills
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Even if your goals are broad or unclear, your therapist can help clarify them during
your session.
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3. Gather Relevant Information
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It can be helpful to have some details on hand, such as:
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Current medications or medical conditions
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Previous therapy or mental health treatment
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Any recent life changes or stressors
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4. Be Ready to Ask Questions
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Your first session is also your opportunity to see if the therapist is a good fit. You might ask about:
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Therapy approaches and techniques used
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Expected frequency or length of sessions
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How progress is measured
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Confidentiality and privacy policies
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5. Take Notes and Reflect
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After your session, take a few minutes to reflect on your experience. Consider:
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What felt helpful or supportive?
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What topics or feelings came up that you want to explore further?
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How comfortable do you feel with your therapist?
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6. Commit to the Process
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Therapy is most effective when you actively participate and attend sessions consistently. Change takes time, and your commitment to the process is a key part of success.
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Remember: The first session is about building a safe, trusting foundation. You don’t need to solve everything at once — it’s the first step on your path to growth and healing.

